5 Important Tips on How to Approach Girls
Understanding how to approach girls can be scary. While being with a woman can be one of the most rewarding experiences of life, the act of putting yourself on the line terrifies most men. It’s especially scary because most men have no idea how to approach a girl!
Here are 5 important tips to make your approach easier!
Tip #1 – Smile
Women evaluate you before you even walk up. If you’re looking serious, nervous or worked up, she’s already decided she doesn’t want to talk to you before your mouth opens!
Make sure you’re smiling when you go up to a woman.
Tip #2 – Own Your Intentions
Don’t make excuses for why you’re here or why you’re talking to her. Women love a man who can be forthright with his intentions.
Tip #3 – Don’t Be Needy
It’s important that you’re not approaching her to “get” something from her, because women can sense it right away. Your attitude should be that you would absolutely enjoy being with her, but you don’t need to be with her.
In other words, your sense of self worth or sense of value as a person isn’t on the line based on what she thinks about you.
Tip #4 – Be In the Moment
Believe it or not, thinking about how to approach girls actually hurts your approach more than it helps it. With women, it’s very important to be in the moment. It’s important to be spontaneous.
Tip #5 – Move the Interaction Forward
Women generally won’t ask for your number, escalate the interaction physically or initiate a kiss. As the man, it’s all on you. Furthermore, she wants you to continue to move the interaction forward. In fact, if you don’t the spark will die very quickly.
Learn to enjoy the process of flirting and the process of moving things forward. After all, that’s what you want isn’t it?
These 5 tips will get you a long way in terms of approaching women you’re attracted to. The most important thing for most guys however, is to actually start talking to women. The only way any of this matters is if you’re actually out there talking to girls. So go out and meet some women today!
