5 Texting Tips For Successful Dating
Once you’ve scored a girls number and you might even have been on a date or two, you’re gonna want to know how to keep her what I call ‘warm’ between dates.
Keeping a woman ‘warm’ during these days is vital for a guy like you looking for more dates that lead to sex. The key is to keep her tied to you, but not in a way that she becomes needy and is expecting to hear from you 24/7.
HERE’S WHY & HOW IT WORKS
Women are emotional, you get that as guy right? They have to justify everything they do in their lives by means of emotion. It’s just how they’re wired. If you’re going to get some more dates and eventually get her to sleep with you, then you need to give her a killer emotional reason to do just that. You need to keep her emotionally linked to you BUT in a casual way!
So if you send her a bunch of text messages that are sweet and friendly and chatty, then she will immediately begin to feel emotionally connected to you and guess what? Yep, you get what you want. But keep it casual!!!
HERE’S HOW YOU WORK THE TEXT MESSAGES TO KEEP IT CASUAL
- Make sure you send her no more than a couple for any day – you don’t have to text her everyday to begin with. Remember, you want to keep her warm initially, you don’t want her red hot and invading your life!
- A good morning text is great, because it shows her that she’s on your mind first thing. Say something like “wishing her a lovely day!” Don’t be too sickly saying stuff like you’re missing her.
- If you text her in the morning, then you need to find another time to text her before the end of the day. Whichever pattern you go for, be sure to vary it from time to time.
- Try to avoid asking her questions in the first few texts you send her, that way you don’t wind up in a back and forth conversation with her, which after only a date or two would be far too much.
- If she texts you first, don’t be too quick to respond, make her wait – you’re a busy guy, a popular guy, she should know that if she wants to hang with you!
So, the days between dates are crucial. Your goal is to not let her go ’cold’ on you or else when you meet up again, it can feel like you’re doing the spade work all over again. You develop some good solid texting skills and it doesn’t have to be that way. Instead you’ll keep her warm and simmering away for you and that means some serious successful dating.
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