Body Language To Pick Up Women
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Where the mind leads, the feet follow!” Without a doubt when you’re looking to pick up women, if you don’t have it going on in your mind, nothing you do physically will change that.
Why’s that you ask, well think about it. So much of what we think of each other, especially when we first meet them, comes through our eyes and our summing of people. It is not unusual for us to meet someone in whatever capacity and just come away with the feeling that we don’t ‘like that person!’ We might have only spoken to them for a couple of minutes, but we’ve already made up our minds about them and that’s because of body language.
Picking up women is no different. You need to make sure that your body language is as positive as can be and you need to make sure you’re displaying nothing but a confident outlook. Women want guys who can adequately express themselves and show that they are proud of who they are and that means positive body language.
So Here Are Some Body Language Tips To Help You Out
- Walk straight and not with your shoulders rounded.
- Make eye contact with the woman, but not staring. You need to break the contact from time to time.
- Listen to what she has to say.
- Don’t talk too fast, this is a clear sign that you’re nervous.
- Don’t stand with your hands in your pockets, because this will slouch your shoulders.
- Get that head held up confidently.
- Smile! A warm and friendly smile can work wonders for putting the woman at ease and so therefore, you too.
- Make sure you don’t stand too close to her and crowd her personal space.
- The larger you can make yourself appear in a space the better, so make sure you’re taking up space and not trying to shrink away into a tiny space.
- Drinking too much alcohol as you try to calm yourself down and get confident.
So underestimating the importance of body language when you’re looking to pick up women is a classic mistake that guys make. Really, if you don’t get your confidence and your body language on a positive footing, then no amount of seduction guides, pick up lines or smart dressing is going to make any difference. That’s how important this stuff is!
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