How To Approach Girls – 5 Big Mistakes
It’s really easy for some guys to see a girl and think “I like her! I’m gonna talk to her!” But if you’re one of the guys who are constantly wondering how to approach girls, then there’s a good chance that you’re psyching yourself out of the game before you’ve even begun.
Truth is it doesn’t matter what you look like, what you drive, the job you do and all the rest of the rubbish reasons that guys like you think they can’t get a head start with girls. It’s to do with you and how you see yourself and what you feel about yourself. Yep, that’s right! It’s all about you!
Now be honest and check out this list and tick off how many of these apply to you!
- You take way too long approaching a girl and by the time you’ve psyched yourself up she’s either on her way out the door, some other guy has stepped in or you just stand there for too long and allow negative thoughts to creep into your mind.
- If you do approach a girl, you approach her all wrong in terms of your body language. You have your head down, your shoulders rounded. Or you come up behind her and almost frighten her to death and worse still when you’re at her side, she can’t hear a word you’re saying because your voice is too low. You need to stand up straight, own the space you’re in and approach her full on and facing her.
- Don’t go out to impress her! Tell me, just how do you impress someone you don’t know? Your goal when you first approach a woman is to make sure that whatever you say you mean and that it doesn’t really matter whether she agrees with you or not. Does this mean you should be aggressive or rude, hell no! It means remember who you are and be confident and unshakable in that.
- It’s tough to approach a girl who’s in a group with her female friends. That’s just fact and sometimes it doesn’t matter what you do or how you do it, it just isn’t going to work. Does that mean you don’t try? NO! But you should be aware that you might come up against the “cockblocker” or the friend who will ward you off like you’re Dracular no matter how the girl you like feels. Just be aware of this.
- Pretty much don’t beat yourself up if you strike out. You cannot expect to hit a home run every time you step up. Just be polite, withdraw and move onto the next object of your desires – always taking with you what you’ve learnt.
So how many did you tick off the list? If even one of the above is true of you, then you might want to consider improving your technique. Put simply, if you’re ready to improve your dating successes then understanding how to approach girls is crucial. Just don’t over think it and wind up taking no action!
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