How to Pick Up Women Using Your Mind
There’s no doubt about this, learning how to pick up women is a lifelong journey. But it’s a joyful journey and one every man should have at the centre of his being.
Step #1 – Start Approaching Women
By far the most important skill you can develop when learning how to pick up women is to consistently talk to a lot of women. Most guys underestimate the power of just having every day chats with women they know and strangers alike. You’re not trying to pick them up, you’re just chatting.
If you go out to bars and talked to 5 women a night, 2 nights a week, that’s 40 women per month! That’s nearly 500 women a year! No doubt with them numbers, the chances are heavily stacked in your favor! You’re bound to have some success! Not to be a bastard about this, but even a blind pig finds a truffle once in a while! So yes, talk to women and you’re gonna have some joy!
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Step #2 – Get Positive!
If you’re down on yourself and think you have no chance with women, then guess what? It’s gonna shine through like a beacon when you step up to talk to them. Tell yourself that you have what it takes and not just once in a while, but every day and many times a day!
You see the brain works that way. You send it loads of negativity about yourself and it begins to believe that and before you know it… Well let’s just say “where the mind leads, the feet follow!”
Step #3 – Go Over Your Successes & Your Failures… Afterwards
It’s true, that the more you talk to women the more you develop the skills you’re gonna need to talk to women!
But when you hit a wall with one, don’t stand there analyzing it to death. Save that joy until you’re alone in bed that night. Keep on learning and see if you can rescue the situation. I mean know this as fact, you’re not going to be able to rescue every situation – sometimes women don’t want to be picked up, they might be out with their girls, be having their period…whatever!
But your big mistake would be to stand there trying to figure it out while the right word or gesture could save the situation.
Just the same way, don’t take your eyes off the prize when you’re making the right moves. Concentrate on what the lady needs and what her body language is telling you. The minute she clocks that you’re more interested in what’s going on in your head, you’ll be lucky if you have time to see her walking away.
So leave it until she’s gone!
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