Dating With Confidence
One of the biggest problems that guys like you can have - guys who’re struggling to date - is that your confidence can take a huge nosedive. Maybe your confidence was never particularly high anyway, but when there’s a dating drought and you’re stuck in a hole pretty soon your confidence will drop into an even bigger hole!
I’ve talked to guys who literally shake at the knees when they’re just thinking about approaching a woman to talk to her, never mind actually doing it. And if you break it down you quickly get to see that these are guys who think they have zip to offer a woman.
They think that they shouldn’t even be breathing the same air as this woman, never mind approaching her and talking to her and that one negative thought just infects everything they try to do or try to say.
Remember, women hate weak men or men who appear to be weak! If you think you’re not good enough to even hang onto her coat tails, then she’s gonna sniff out that thought at 200 paces.
When you approach a woman, your confidence needs to be set. It’s gonna help you heaps if you stop thinking that anything good that happens to you in life, happens because of luck! Make the stuff that you make happen, all about you. It has nothing to do with luck.
It’s time to start believing and living the fact that you do have something to offer that woman you’ve been eyeing across the bar.
Dude, you have something to bring to the table, don’t set off under the deluded idea that you’re going to have to beg that hot woman across the bar for some of her air space, instead act like you have something to offer her and go offer it!
And guess what, she’ll listen!
