How to Get Out of Friend Zone
So, you’re out with her and you bump into someone she knows and she introduces you as “this is xxx, he’s just a friend!” Word up, you’re officially stuck in the dreaded friend zone! And so are a ton of guys and they’re all looking for a way out!
Getting stuck being best friends with a girl you actually want to date can often be a permanent state. Once she sees you as one of her best friends it can be a ton of work to get the hell out of there and have her see you as a guy she wants to date. Here are some tips that might get her to see you as boyfriend material.
Tell Her You Like Her
If you’ve not told her how you feel, then just how do you expect her to know you like her. It’s time to step up and be a man and tell her that you like her and you want to date her. If she says no, then at least you’ll know!
Availability
Are you always there for her? Doing for her? If you’ve positioned yourself in her life as someone she can call on to help her out when she’s in a tough spot, then you need to make yourself unavailable to her. Next time she calls tell her you’re busy.
Don’t Listen to Her Stuff
Don’t wind up being the emotional dump where she routinely dumps all her emotional stuff. If she’s talking to you about her problems in an asexual way, then she sees you as a friend and no threat to her. By threat I mean she thinks of you as one of her girlfriends and not a guy she needs to be guarded with, because you’re never going to hit on her! Basically she’s put in a dress!
Again, tell her straight up that you’re not interested in being one of her girlfriends, you want to be her boyfriend. Hell be rude to her if you have to, just get the hell out of that dress, it doesn’t suit you!
Her Social Circle
Women/girls rely heavily on their family and friends and because of that they seek their approval. So she’s always gonna want to introduce the guy she’s dating to her social circle and she wants to do that proudly. If you’re the kind of guy who is not someone who stands up and makes himself heard and seen, then she’s probably not going to be introducing you to her family and friends any time soon.
Get out and fill your space and make her see you as a guy that people notice and who has the confidence and presence to be more than just her friend.
As I said, once she sees you as a best friend and not a boyfriend, it can be a ton of work just to get out of that fix. But ask yourself this question, “how much do you like her?”
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