How to Pickup Women: The One Night Stand
Stuff like commitment and relationships aren’t exactly high on your priority list, yet you still want to feel the warmth of a woman beside you. You may desire company and intimacy without the emotional strings attached to a messy boyfriend-girlfriend routine. You may just want to have her for the night and move on in the morning. For whatever reasons you may have, learning how to pickup women for a one night stand is a unique skill.
How to Pickup Women – The Basics
No emotional attachment – if you want to learn how to pickup women for a one night stand, you’ve got to make sure you don’t get attached to your partner. You’ll be in a world of hurt if you fall in love with someone you met for a one night stand.
Its consensual – of course, the reverse can happen: you’re going to be in major trouble if your partner develops ties with you. So make sure your partner clearly understands that the night is for one night only.
The Places
Bars – the classic pickup spot. These places were designed for people to mingle and socialize with each other over a couple of drinks, so expect to find a lot of potential targets in bars. Just make sure to check the bar you’re in: you don’t want to pickup a girl in a biker’s bar.
Social Events – parties, company dinners and other similar social events are excellent places for you to pickup girls. Unlike bars, though, you’ll have to be extra careful with your target in social events like parties. Be especially careful of hidden wedding rings and other symbols of attachment.
The Girls
Eyeballing – this is how to pickup women in a bar or a crowded spot: scan the area with your eyes. No, not with the menacing eyes of a hungry wolf, but with curious eyes that playfully flits around the room. Look at women you’re interested in, and let them know you’re looking. If they avoid your gaze, skip to other men. If they match your gaze, mark her as a potential target.
Gestures – if a girl matches your gaze, or you match a girls’ gaze, take a couple of minutes to observe her gestures. You’ll notice a little ‘electricity’ that’ll buzz a girl who’s interested in you: posture, coyness, and a few alluring smiles are three of the more obvious signs you’ve got chemistry.
The Approach
Atmosphere – you don’t want to come in strong in a quiet bar. Check the atmosphere: a strong approach works for high-energy atmospheres, like discos and parties, while a subdued approach works for low-key atmospheres, like bars and social dinners.
The Girl – of course, you’ll have to check your approach with your prospective target. Use your confidence with women to gauge whether the girl gets turned on by a strong approach or gets intrigued by a subdued approach.
The Punch line – popping the question requires precise timing. Don’t forget these three rules: get her interested, get her motivated, and then get her aroused before asking her over to your place. With skill and luck, you won’t even need to pop the question: do it well enough, and she’ll take the initiative and ask you to her place.
And one last thing: don’t get her drunk and then drag her to your place. No matter how willing she is while drunk as a skunk, knocking her up while she’s intoxicated still counts as rape. So be very, very careful with the drinks.
Now you know the four key concepts you’ve got to master if you want to learn how to pickup women for a one night stand.
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